Love Dilemma in relationships and forever theory

By:  Reham Essam

Love is one word of a million flavors, so it's not just the happiness we will feel. Love also contains pain, even painful if betrayed. If sadness caused by love is overwhelming, we need positive activity as a distraction to forget our little sadness. One alternative is to make a sad love poem. The poems we make can be heartbreaking and memories of what we feel right now, and if you are not talented enough to write poetry, don't worry. There are many other ways to let off some steam like sharing sad posts on Facebook or even read poems for other authors this if you are left in the past and lost on your beloved eyes and never want to heal.

The mystery of love is much greater than the mystery of death because there is no reasonable cause that can explain it, and at the middle of your chaos, you find a warm heart that collects your pieces all over again and you share your life with another someone as if you were born yesterday night. For sure it's exchanged responsibility to make your partner happy, so the keyword here is Sacrifices I think this is how it goes if you want to make the end of your story "and they lived happily ever after".

The greatest thing I have ever learned is just to love and be loved in return even in friendships or normal daily life relationships, also to always forgive others because at the end  they are human beings who commit mistakes and so do I. However, I am doing this not for their sake, I want to keep my inner peace. Imagine your life and the time, power, and energy lost while fighting with other just to prove your point of view or to be stubborn for silly shallow stuff that you can just get over them and stop acting like a naive kid who is out of control. When the problem is over or even left hanged without solution form both sides, you discover after many years that it would be better if you just scarified with this little thing, or if you said sorry and proved it by actions before it was too late.

If you have friends, I mean real friends who know that friendship is a vow to stand by your side in tough times not just to hang out to eat in an expensive restaurant or go to the club together. It's rare in our time to find people who appreciate your presence and accept your flaws just because they love you and both of you exert effort to show love and make this relation last as long as forever; getting out of someone's life after you were too close under any type of relationships is really hard to be stranger after you know each detail about the other's life. Unfortunately, this is life and your friend may turn to an enemy or even worst as he/she knew too much about the real you, so it's a good revenge to use your secrets and beat you on your point of weakness.

Nothing lasts forever if we don't exert much effort to keep it, and human nature is really complicated you follow your heart and some signs and this is a risk. The dilemma of "What if?" when you are talking to yourself  after midnight to review your daily story-line and the decisions that you had taken put you on this endless cycle because you will run to escape from your thoughts or end up by writing your last letter and then suicide. Just think always about consequences and if you have emotions for these people don't let them go because they commit a silly mistake that can be solved by honest communication from all sides.

Relationships aren't easy just be up to your word and give your partner something concrete to prove that you really care no matter your age and know that when you choose to live with someone you should accept every detail about him/her, and be aware that you lost that luxury to choose again. Instead of searching for alternative partner or friend, be mature enough to tackle the problem that you already face.

Is it better to take the wrong train or miss it?

I accidentally bought the wrong ticket!

By: Reham Essam

First of all, there is no need to stress. It happens to the best of us.

Depending on your ticket conditions, you will have a variety of options. If your ticket is Semi-Flexible or Flexible ticket you can see this information if you look at your ticket on the website or app or on your ticket confirmation email then you can cancel your ticket and receive a refund easily. In order to cancel your ticket, "click here" to find out exactly what to do.  Once you have cancelled your ticket, you can book a new one for the right day or/ time.

I heared these words when I booked a ticket for Alexandia, and then I found that I hold a ticket for Aswan. I asked myself is it better to catch up the wrong train or miss it?

Sometimes we find ourselves faced with difficult choices. We can be staring at two options and almost literally feel torn between which one to choose.We might know what the right choice is, but we might still have the desire to make the wrong one. Life is filled with moments in which you feel as if you are standing in a fork in the road, looking down two potential paths, and wondering which way you should go. Sometimes we find ourselves lost, uncertain of which path will lead us home.

Other times we know which path will lead us further away and, yet, we might be so curious that we want to take that path. The wonderful thing about life is that we often have the option to travel down many different paths. However, that ability to make choices can also be one of the most terrifying things about life.

Bad decisions were useful at some point, as it helped you to master the art of self forgiveness and your ability to make a decision is an opportunity to exercise the freedom that is your birthright. By feeling the pain from a decision “gone wrong,” you enable yourself to bask in the magnificence of a decision “gone right” because of the occasional misstep, you enable yourself to live a Technicolor life.You are here to live in color!  Mistakes are OK as long as they’re new ones. Bad decisions are only bad if you repeat them. For me, the only bad decisions are the ones I did not make. There is a lot to learn each time you make a decision; You may see the flaws in your logic or learn new facts about the environment in which the decision was made. Maybe you were too emotional or not emotional enough. You just have to keep trying to get to the right place the next time.

Finally, I have hope that I can cancel the wrong booking for the train and wait for the next train so that I stop regretting and blaming myself  for missing the right train which came when the time was wrong although I wanted to catch it by any mean, but unfortunately I couldn't repeat the past.

When The Past Is Another Country:Discussion with my depressed friend who just passed his thirties

By: Reham Essam

Time passed in a blink of an eye, make the most of every moment of it before the years fleeted. You have so much time in your hand, time seems to speed up, and it just goes so fast. There is a moment in your life where you stop hoping to be older and start hoping to be younger. In your twenties, you wish to grow up and people think you are older than you may seem and then comes a moment and you discover that you wish completely the opposite, some people reach this level at the age of thirty or a little older.

On my thirty birthday party,  I profoundly looked at my life before to discover the things below and just in case you feel the same know that you are not alone :-

When you find that the number of friends you can speak with at any time to see them at the moment is less.

You discover that these excess fats no longer disappear as easily as before.

Midnight becomes late when it used to be the time for your calls to prepare for an outing.

You have a good culture for vaccines, their effects and side effects, and you have a preferred medicine for every pain that visits you regularly.

Realize that a friend is not fighting against your enemies, but who forgives you and does not quarrel with you and easily becomes your enemy.

Doctors are closer to you than some friends, and they may more than know "How are you now?"

You start most of your stories with "from 15 years ago" and you seem recalling every details about them all.

The routine of your social life is stuck between going to weddings and then a consolation and you became aware that the importance of going to solace is much greater than going for joys.

You hear stories that you think are just happening to others, unfortunately they happen to your close friends and guess what! You are included.

Your feelings in surprises dramatically started to decline and your voice during crisis started to fade away. You are no longer expecting justice from the world, but when an error occurs in the universe and the oppressed takes his right or the oppressor is punished you smile, but you do not expect the continuity of this random error.

Driving has become a curse, your love to take a ride with your car day and night to discover the city's secrets come to its end, while the terrifying nightmare is a work meeting forcing you to take the ring or Axis or October Bridge at peak hours.

You believe less and doubt more, you blow in your yogurt after you had been burned by hot soup many times before.

The worst part is the dreams, when they turned from dreams of flying into escapism. The desire to gain something turned to be that feeling of fear to lose what you already have, also your dreams to meet your beloved burned to ashes and you started to think to meet those under the dust.

These thoughts came usually before the New Year began, and the memory of your birth raises a new question after it was the key to more choices.

You are talking to yourself that you are not here to resist or fight with years, but something like eternal battle deep inside you, still fighting.